tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-79046533867640311172024-03-13T09:40:59.849-07:00the hill familyamy hillhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03259723955816751351noreply@blogger.comBlogger30125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7904653386764031117.post-65873420052120130702013-12-09T09:50:00.000-08:002013-12-09T09:50:46.616-08:00Happy Birthday TuckerI woke up yesterday with plans in mind. Then I realized I couldn't move. The boys have gotten big and somewhere in the middle of carrying them in their carriers and bending to put them down in their cribs, I managed to pull a muscle in my back. It's been bothering me for days, but yesterday, the day I had made plans to celebrate Tucker's 3rd birthday, was the day it became excruciating. <br />
So my plans of pancakes, decorating the Tucker tree for his old room, going to the cemetery to take pictures with the boys in the snow, all came to a crashing halt. <br />
Instead, I was very still.<br />
And then I realized this is exactly what the Lord wanted from me. He has this way of pointing out scripture to me when He is trying to tell me something. I sat quietly in my living room, staring out my window at the blanket of snow covering his creation, as I found my way to Isaiah.<br />
"The Lord says, My thoughts are not like your thoughts. Your ways are not like my ways. Just as the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways and my thoughts higher than your thoughts."<br />
Sometimes I have the urge to work hard here on earth to make sure his life was not meaningless and that he is significant. But I'm learning... <br />
He's with Jesus. That is significant enough.<br />
I was hoping to start traditions yesterday that we can do on his birthday each year. But once again, God is showing me that my plans are not His plans. And instead, I spent a whole afternoon talking to the One who is actually with Tucker on his birthday. <br />
Now that's a party.<br />
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Happy 3rd Birthday Tucker! Your new life with Jesus has impacted so many lives and I am so proud of you. All of your little friends have wished you happy birthday and are talking about you....Cooper even brought muffins this morning in the snow! You are missed and loved beyond words, but we are all so jealous that you are home. Can't wait to be home with you!amy hillhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03259723955816751351noreply@blogger.com18tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7904653386764031117.post-86213590513927262762013-05-29T15:47:00.002-07:002013-05-29T15:47:34.423-07:004 whole monthsMaximus and Gideon turned 4 months old two days ago. It amazes me to think back to 4 months ago when I was laying in my hospital bed while they were upstairs in the NICU. I had no idea what their journey was going to be and what health concerns we were looking at. I prayed fervently for them and needless to say, our God is good.<br />
We went to their 4 month appointment a little early, but they were both weighing in at 13 lbs. This put them around the 25th percentile for their actual age. They have reached several of their milestones such as cooing, rolling over every once in awhile, kicking, and scooting around. <br />
They still eat every 3 hours and have managed to sleep through the night a few times now. I am so ready for this to be consistent.<br />
They look so much alike that I actually managed to get them mixed up for an entire day.<br />
Mom-of-the-Year.<br />
We are finally getting out of the house now and I even figured out how to take them to Walmart. I also figured out that I will not be making many Walmart trips with them if I can help it.<br />
I have learned how to roll through stop signs and will most likely get a speeding ticket sometime soon due to them not wanting to stop or slow down in the car.<br />
They are great and my days are absolutely consumed with them. I have been in a such a "baby mode" that I almost took a jumbo pack of diapers to give to the bride at her bridal shower. Thankfully Nathan caught this in time and reminded me that she was getting married, not having a baby.<br />
So yes, these last 4 months have been absolute chaos but also so redeeming. <br />
Sometimes I just start shaking my head in disbelief when I think of the timeline of this journey. It makes me truly understand that the only one who could have written this story is God himself. <br />
On February 28th 2012, I went to bed that night with a paralyzing pain, asking God to not let me wake up in the morning. Exactly one year later, I brought home my twin boys from the hospital.<br />
He really does know what He's doing.<br />
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amy hillhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03259723955816751351noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7904653386764031117.post-73195526432704295282013-05-22T10:24:00.000-07:002013-05-22T10:24:42.469-07:00ChildrenWhen I envision heaven, I think of all the joys the Lord gave us here on earth just magnified to whole new level. One of those joys is children. <br />
I want to live in a paradise where children are laughing, babies are cooing, little feet are pitter pattering, and little hands are playing. <br />
It would only make sense that a perfect eternity would have sweet children in it.<br />
Then I came to the realization that the only way for children to make up heaven is for them to leave this earth as children.<br />
This part is appalling to us. Nothing in this world is more painful than losing a child.<br />
Jesus made it clear when He spent time on this earth how much he loved children. He said himself that they will see the kingdom.<br />
I have struggled so much with why Tucker was taken so abruptly from us. I struggle when I hear of other parents going through the same thing. I struggle when I hear of innocent little lives being taken by pure evil. I struggle when I hear of these precious little ones being taken by natural disasters. <br />
But I don't think these children were made for earth. What is so special is that heaven gained what Jesus talked about loving so much. <br />
Our little children were made to be heaven's children.<br />
It doesn't make it easier on us, but there is surely something special about that. amy hillhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03259723955816751351noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7904653386764031117.post-18768435270465670062013-04-25T10:39:00.001-07:002013-04-25T10:39:54.756-07:00my world
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My world has been turned upside down in the best possible
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Gideon and Maximus are 3 months old and at their last
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I attempted to hold both of them at the same time the other
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I truly feel like they just came from heaven.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>They are so special and my heart feels
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I’ve had people ask if it’s healing.</div>
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I knew all along that a baby is not going to replace the
pain.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>It won’t replace him.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>It won’t erase the trauma that still
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But it brought about a joy that is riding alongside this
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The boys have been doing great with very few health
concerns.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Gideon still has a small
hole in his heart but the cardiologist is not worried.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>It is in a muscular area which should
most likely grow back.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>He is also
still on his apnea monitor which I am surprised I haven’t thrown through the
window yet.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>He should be getting
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Max is free of health concerns.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>He tends to be the one that thrives more quickly while Gideon
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about 2 months old. It is usually out of defiance when placed on his tummy.</div>
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Our pediatrician told us to still stay inside with no
toddlers coming near them until their 4 month appointment.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>This has been extremely difficult but
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I actually googled “how to take twins to Walmart.” </div>
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People have been so great and I am so thankful.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I have a huge pile of thank you cards
sitting on my table that I work on every time I get a moment.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>My issue is finding all the addresses
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Max and Gidoen:</div>
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You are loved beyond words not just by me, but more
importantly by your heavenly Father whom I am confident just sent you to
me.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I see you staring around your
room and I am sure you see your angels.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
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Look who decided to show up at 31 weeks with absolutely no warning. Maximus Joshua and Gideon John were born on Sunday morning January 27th 2013. Maximus weighed 3 lbs. 13 oz. and Gideon weighed 3 lbs. 10 oz. Overall, they are doing great for being so early but are still in the NICU and will be there for another couple of weeks. Everyone has been so great and I know people are wanting to know what happened. Honestly, I have no idea! But I will attempt to tell you their arrival story. </div>
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On January 24, my doctor told me to "take it easy" from there on out. Meaning, I was going to work half days and then work from home the rest of the day. I spent Thursday and Friday getting everything set up at work to do that and feeling so excited and relieved that I could have some down time before the boys got here. </div>
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Of course I decide to go to the Bentonville/Fayetteville game on Friday night and I am greeted by a huge flight of stairs. I'm not sure where I've been but I had no idea where this new arena came from. </div>
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When I get home, I'm watching my new obsession "24" and starting to realize that I am contacting. My first thought is to ignore it because they don't hurt at all. I finally decide to lay on the couch and time them while secretly chugging water so Nathan doesn't freak out. Well he finally got suspicious and asked what I was doing. Before I knew it, I was changing into an ER gown trying to convince a nurse that they don't hurt while thinking maybe I can finish my 24 episode before I go to bed that night. </div>
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It was somewhat of a blur from there. I was a 4 and 75% effaced and the contractions were 3 minutes apart. I was on magnesium for the next 24 hours and was able to get two steroid shots to develop their lungs. </div>
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Around 3:30 Sunday morning, my doctor said that she needed to go ahead and take them. She checked me and not only had I progressed quite a bit, but Max kicked her. I was wheeled in for an emergency C-Section and before I had time to even think about what was happening, I heard Maximus cry. Exactly one minute later, I heard Gideon. </div>
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The boys did great from the beginning. Max had a little more difficulty breathing at first. They both were on oxygen for about a week. A week and half after birth, they were moved from the middle critical care part to their own room in the NICU. They got their IV's out around that time as well. For the past week they have been taking bottles like champs. Maximus started taking a bottle about 2 weeks old. Gideon took his first bottle at about 2.5 weeks old. At almost 3 weeks old, they started wearing clothes and being weaned off of their isolates. </div>
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It's hard to get a clear answer in the NICU but we are estimating another 2 weeks until they get to come home. This has been quite the unexpected journey, but if anyone knows about unexpected it is us. I am at a point where I have become very accepting of what's to come. Good and bad. I have said numerous times that this world is not our home. I am thankful that it is not Maximus and Gideon's home either. </div>
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It is difficult to describe the fullness in my heart right now. They are so precious to me in such a special way because they truly represent the goodness of God. I will share more about what's on my heart but until then.....</div>
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2012 is a year that will always be imprinted in my
heart.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>It was the last year our
little boy was alive, it was the year he was taken from this world.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>It was the year I met my Savior on a
deeper level than what I knew was possible.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>It was the year I found out we were having our sweet twin
boys.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>It was a year of great
memories, painful memories, and a year of redemption.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span></div>
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There is an internal battle that I struggle with in wanting
to fight time, but also rejoicing as it passes.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>You want to leave the trauma of that night, but you don’t
want to leave the nearness you feel with that loved one.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span></div>
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I write this with a heavy heart in not only thinking of my
loss in 2012, but so many others starting a new year without a loved one.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>It is my prayer that God covers the
trauma and reveals his truth.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span></div>
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“See, I will create a new heaven and a new earth.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>The former things will not be
remembered, nor will they come to mind.”<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
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I am thankful for a Savior that redeems the trauma and
pain.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I am thankful that even
though I still feel it at times, Tucker does not.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I am thankful that as I feel like I am leaving behind a
piece of me as time continues on, in reality, it is a piece that is actually
ahead of me.</div>
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Here’s to 2013.</div>
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However, I cherish every milestone and live in the moment. <br />
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Here's what I do know. We are having twin BOYS. :) As I said before, our prayer was for God to take this and let it be His. I didn't even want to think about what I wanted or what I thought would be best or worst for us. I was excited to see what he thought was best. Our Lord gives and takes away. It's painful, it's beautiful, and it's confusing, but blessed be His name.<br />
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Our little boys are thriving. They are considered mono-di, but are growing as if they are di-di. They are identical in size and always measuring a little ahead. So far, the pregnancy has gone perfect. They move around all the time and my stomach is expanding at an alarming rate. Which is concerning when I start thinking about how this is going to be humanly possible.<br />
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I find myself praying for them numerous times a day. Not out of panic or worry, but acceptance that they are His...not mine. I love them so much and stare at their pictures thinking about their innocence to this world and the pain that comes with living in this world. I pray that their lives would be used to reveal His glory...just like their big brother's life was used. <br />
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They have no idea the impact their lives have already had through God using them to reveal himself. <br />
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These two pictures are at 18 weeks. Disregard the disgusting mirror please. We don't clean the bottom half because Tucker's nose and hand prints are still on it. I'm not sure what our excuse is for the top half.<br />
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And this is what welcomed me on my way home from work the other day. I love it when this happens.<br />
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Thanks to everyone for continuing to pray for us. Nothing has gone unnoticed. Everything has been read and reread and brought tears to my eyes. I don't know if I will ever be able to express my gratitude the extent that I long to on this side of heaven. <br />
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Lots to be thankful for....amy hillhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03259723955816751351noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7904653386764031117.post-55851898228818138552012-10-02T15:25:00.001-07:002012-10-02T15:25:49.968-07:00Rally
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It has been a little over seven months since Tucker went to be with
Jesus.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>In seven months I have
learned so much about this life we are living here on earth and the life I
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After losing a son, that will just not do.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Not only will that just not do, but God
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So that is what I am doing.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Trusting that one day, when I walk into His kingdom and my
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My urgency stems from wanting everyone to know Jesus before
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So here I am. Twelve weeks pregnant with twins. Talk about a whirlwind of freaking emotions. I think the coolest thing so far has been how much our Lord's name has been glorified through announcing the life of these two precious little ones.<br />
We were simply blown away by the response of everyone on facebook, this blog, phone calls, texts, and neighbors running into our house as soon as we announced it. And there seemed to be a common theme. No words, tears, and praises to God. How cool is that.<br />
We have been told that they are identical twins because they are in the same sac with one placenta. So I did what they tell you not to do and started googling. I came across crazy statistics of how uncommon this is, and then scary statistics of what could possibly happen. <br />
At ten weeks, they could not find a membrane separating them which led us to see a specialist a week later. That was somewhat of a long week. We knew the risks involved if they couldn't find a membrane. We read the statistics of survival. I've discovered that statistics mean nothing to me anymore.<br />
So we prayed.<br />
At eleven weeks they found the membrane. They were identical in size, and their heart rates were 178 and 180. They were absolutely perfect. They are classified as identical twins, mono-di, meaning they have two sacs but one placenta. <br />
As for me and how I am feeling, it really hasn't been too bad. It feels a lot like my pregnancy with Tucker. I feel nauseous but don't throw up. Nathan refers to me as a bear in hibernation so I guess I might be sleeping a lot. <br />
One hard part is feeling as if my grief and hormones have had a head on collision. It's hard to control your crying when you actually have something to cry about. My ability to stay poised and collected while in public has gone out the window. I was a weeping mess at church today. We sang "Jesus Paid It All" which is the song we sang at Tucker's funeral. We also sang "10,000 Reasons" which gets me going too. Give me a song, a message, or a verse about Heaven and I'm on the verge of jumping up and down with excitement while being moved to tears.<br />
Thank you all, for continuing to love us. Thank you for praying for us and these special little blessings. I think about heaven a lot and words cannot explain my excitement for eternity. To see my Savior, my little boy, my whole family to be reunited, and then to think about getting to spend everyday with all of you lovely people....it's just wonderful. amy hillhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03259723955816751351noreply@blogger.com15tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7904653386764031117.post-5881789963209378712012-08-29T16:10:00.000-07:002012-08-29T16:11:04.201-07:00His Faithfulness<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">
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One moment that comes to mind, is the 13 year old girl who moved to Arkansas kicking and screaming because she thought life could not get more perfect than Greenville, Tx. This will be humorous for some of you.<br />
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I talked to God a lot back then. I was incredibly timid and not so sure of myself, and especially not so sure of this thing called public school that I was thrown into. <br />
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After my family prayed about what church we were going to attend, I was baptized for the second time, and I was on my way to sunshine mountain for a youth group retreat feeling a tad bit more sure of myself. <br />
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I was chomping down on a bag of gummy worms when I decided it would be nice of me to share with others. I turned around and asked the boy behind me if he wanted one. He stared at me for probably five seconds and then said sure. After he took his worm, I proceeded to tell him that he had very mysterious eyes. Then he stared at me some more.<br />
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Later in life I will realize that this was the moment for him. <br />
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We were inseparable after that. We dated through my junior high and high school years. We were best friends and I loved him. We met each other in our most vulnerable phase in life and watched each other grow up. We saw each other in our best moments, we saw each other in our worst moments. We saw each other grow in Christ, slip away from Christ, and be provided with grace from Christ. <br />
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We would break up. We would be best friends. He would boldly confess his love. I would boldly be a flaky hot mess. We would be best friends again. And then repeat. <br />
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Pivotal moment was the day I decided to get my act together and start listening and obeying the Lord, instead of just talking. <br />
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With hands shaking and all, I boldly confessed my love to him over lunch at Marketplace. Days later, after he had time to pray and think about it, he said I've had his heart since the first time I shared my gummy worms with him at sunshine mountain.<br />
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He knew to put a ring on it quickly and get me down the aisle. Probably fearing a relapse of the flaky hot mess he experienced from me for the past 8 years. <br />
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I share our story because that was 3 years ago today and I can't help to think about what it would be like if someone was to show you a preview of what you were about to jump into. What if the slideshow at rehearsal dinner were pictures about what's to come. The good and the bad. <br />
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I don't know why it's comforting but it's nice to know there is a sovereign God.<br />
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It just blows my mind to think about when I was sharing my gummy worms and staring into Nathan's eyes for the first time, God knew that Tucker was going to be our son. He knew that we were going to experience a heartache that exceeds any hardship that we could possibly comprehend at the time. The day I met Nathan at Marketplace with my hands shaking, and I knew that I was meant to marry this man, God knew then too. Three years ago today, as I stared into those mysterious eyes and said "I do", I had no idea the depth of the phrase "I do" until now. <br />
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Today is special. It reminds me of where our journey began and where it is still going. God knew every hair on Tucker's head the day I shared my gummy worms. He knew he was going to enter this world on December 8, 2010 and that he would return to His kingdom on February 28, 2012. For some reason, He wanted Nathan and I to be Tucker's mommy and daddy for his short life here in this world.<br />
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Nathan and I have told each other numerous times that we can't imagine going through this with any one else than each other. The beautiful part is that God knew that too. amy hillhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03259723955816751351noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7904653386764031117.post-28345029580772901072012-06-29T09:30:00.000-07:002012-06-29T09:32:02.623-07:00Angels<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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I stare at the sky quite a bit lately. I'm not sure what I am looking for but there is something so peaceful and extraordinary about how it's ever changing but never ceases to take your breath away. There have been numerous times when I will come to a screeching halt in my car and pull over on a busy highway to take a picture of the sky. Usually it's of a "T" that the clouds have formed so perfectly. I actually have this weird pain in my neck now that I think is a result of staring at the sky when I go running. I'm sure I don't look like a crazy person at all.<br />
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Maybe it's knowing that this precious boy is sitting next to the one that controls the clouds, sun, moon, stars, and entire universe that I am trying to patiently live in right now. All of a sudden, His creation around me is coming to life as I realize how He speaks through His works.<br />
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For the past couple of months now, I have been seeing white butterflies everywhere I go. The very first thing I see in the morning when I look outside is a white butterfly. When I go running, I will be praying and see a white butterfly. I don't remember the last time when a day has gone by and I haven't seen one. <br />
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The moment I found out Meryn McCall went to be with Jesus, I went to the window, closed my eyes, and started praying. When I opened them, there were two white butterflies in the window directly in front of me. <br />
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I finally decided to go figure out what the symbolism is for white butterflies. I stared in disbelief at my computer and said out loud "you've got to be kidding me." There were three definitions that immediately popped up in my google search. Representation of past soul. Guardian angel. Resurrection.<br />
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So then I became obsessed with taking pictures of white butterflies. To the point where I would sit outside in the grass with my camera in hand. Just waiting. I was with a group of friends one night where everyone was going on about what they did that day. Then I realized there was no way of getting around saying that I spent my entire day looking at butterflies.<br />
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Another sweet blessing in our lives has been the births of our precious niece and nephew.<br />
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Tucker would have been 18 months today. Yes it is hard, but each second that goes by is one second closer to when I get to see him again.</div>amy hillhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03259723955816751351noreply@blogger.com7tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7904653386764031117.post-18866510288804154232012-05-15T16:20:00.000-07:002012-05-15T16:20:30.204-07:00Life LatelySo this past week has been unexpected. That pretty much sums up life right now but I'm okay with that. I've managed to turn 29 years old, babysit my newest nephew Ven in the ER while doctors tried to figure out what was wrong with my sister, take Ven to his first pediatric appointment, admit Ven into Washington Regional due to jaundice, pray hard for God to heal my sister, attend baby Meryn's memorial service in Little Rock, make it through Mother's Day without my little boy, and then praise God for healing my sister so she could spend mother's day with her little boy. <br />
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There were times when I would sit there almost saying "really God" but then I envisioned Him saying back "yes, really Amy." <br />
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That book I am reading, What Women Fear, Angie talks about Job's response to God, but what is even funnier is God's response to Job's response. God responded to Job, "Where were you when I laid the earth's foundation?" <br />
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There were a lot of triggers this past week. But life still went on. I continued to breathe, I continued to wake up each morning, I continued to laugh at times, I continued to cry at times, I continued to pray, I continued to ask God to be near. He continues to be faithful so I am trying my hardest to do the same. <br />
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If you have been around us lately, it is hard to escape a conversation where we have the whole group talking about heaven. God has been revealing himself to us in ways that I never experienced before. There used to be a disconnect when thinking of heaven and what it "might" be like and how it "most likely" will be really great. He has opened our eyes through books we have read, dreams He has given us, and just plain showing up when we ask Him. <br />
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I have gone back and tried to read some of my posts with an unbeliever perspective. Just in case there are any out there. I think the hardest part to grasp is how can I remain faithful when I prayed for Him to specifically not take my son, and He still did. Honestly, I don't have an answer for that. <br />
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I spent the majority of the day praying yesterday. I prayed specifically for the Lord to perform a miracle and save Meryn Grace McCall. Some dear friends in our community group, Adam and Joanna, were 22 weeks pregnant with their healthy baby girl and she went to be with Jesus yesterday. <br />
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As I found out the news, all I could was cry and beg Jesus to cover them like He has covered us. I asked Him to cradle Meryn in his arms, and I asked Him to allow Tucker to show her around. <br />
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Nathan and I are heartbroken for our friends and are committed to praying and being there for them as they have been for us. I have personally experienced the body of Christ and how powerful we can be as we pray together. I'm asking you to pray with me for these parents who lost their child. <br />
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I have experienced a handful of times now where I feel like the Lord just shows up. Usually He involves the sun in some way. The first time this happened, I was driving and one of those triggers took place. I think it was Walmart. I was blinded by tears the entire way home and repeated the phrase "remind me that he's with you." I stumbled out to our hammock in the backyard and layed down with my eyes closed still repeating that phrase. I must have said it about twenty times and all of a sudden, I felt such a warmth on my face as the sun decided to come out for the first time that day. I layed there with my eyes closed feeling the brightness and the warmth cover me. All I could do was smile. It lasted about fifteen seconds and then it was gone. All I could say was "thank you."</div>
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The girls in my community group decided to start reading this book and meet once a month to discuss a chapter. The first and last time I had met with them to discuss it was the night before Tucker died. Tucker and I went that day to the bookstore to buy the book. He sat up on the counter as I paid for it smiling at the clerk as people commented on what a cute boy he was. We went home and played outside in the backyard while I ate hummus and carrots and he said "pwease" twenty times for another graham cracker. As I got into the hammock to start reading the book, he ran over and reached out his arms for me to pick him up. I put him in the hammock with me while I read, only to look down moments later to find him cuddled up asleep. I stood up holding him thinking I will go lay him down. He opened his eyes suddenly, so I decided to just let him sleep next to me. And he did. He slept cuddled up to me while I read the first two chapters of "What Women Fear" by Angie Smith. Little did I know that this author and I were about to have something in common. </div>
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</div>amy hillhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03259723955816751351noreply@blogger.com10tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7904653386764031117.post-71845571033768511992012-04-13T18:37:00.005-07:002012-04-13T20:38:21.955-07:00Redefining NormalThis was the last picture taken of us as a family. It was a few days before Tucker went to be with Jesus. I am so thankful that the Lord gave us moments like this, knowing full well that we only had days left with our precious little gift. <br /><br /><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-ohiUONQEG-U/T4jWd1zzDvI/AAAAAAAAAFw/ggw5HgJEQEs/s1600/kissing%2Btucker.jpg"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 267px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5731066333977841394" border="0" alt="" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-ohiUONQEG-U/T4jWd1zzDvI/AAAAAAAAAFw/ggw5HgJEQEs/s400/kissing%2Btucker.jpg" /></a><br />I think the most common question, understandably so, is "how are we doing." It's a hard question to answer because we can say "okay" and mean it, but it's not the same "okay" as we once were before our world was turned upside down. <br /><br />We have a very close family friend who lost his daughter about a year and a half ago in a tragic car accident. I was in Big Lots the day I found out, and I still remember the feeling of horror every time I pass that store and have yet to go back there. This past summer we met them in Destin and listened. Our hearts broke for them and I tried to envision what that would be like to lose Tucker. I couldn't. He told me a few days after Tucker died that we would be redefining normal. This completely makes sense to me now. <br /><br />I am realizing that there is a choice that I have to make daily. I can think worldly or I can think eternal. I can be sad and stay fixated on the things that Tucker and I used to do in this world, or I can choose to believe that the Lord has prepared a place for us and "to depart with Him is far better than staying on Earth."<br /><br />It doesn't make sense to me because my world seemed pretty perfect when we ate our oatmeal together everyday. When he would say "bweakfast" first thing in the morning. When the only thing that woke me up for a year was his sweet little voice through the baby monitor. When he would lay his little head on my shoulder. When he would take turns cuddling with me and Nathan all throughout the night that last month he was alive. When he would say "pwease" to everything he possibly wanted. When he would run at me full force knocking me over only to find it the most funny thing in the whole world. When daddy would do free throws with him and he couldn't contain his giggles. When he would be a walking dance party every time he heard music. When we would whisper the word "bath" and he dropped everything and ran for the bathtub. When he would say "mama" and "dada" with his head nod.<br /><br />Seems pretty perfect. But it's not. As Paul said, "to live is Christ, to die is gain." He got it. He endured a lot of suffering but he was purposeful with his remaining days here on earth. It is my prayer to grasp this too. These are NOT just words of comfort that we cling to in times of trouble to make us feel better. These are absolute truths and promises that come from our Maker who IS going to return to us. <br /><br />Easter. Another common question, "was Easter hard?" Understandable question, but the Lord carried us that day. It was my specific prayer for the Lord to remind us every moment of that day that this is why we can celebrate and have eternal hope. This is why we can be joyful. This is why we can go on living and trusting Him. Every time my gaze fell towards cute kiddos running around in their Easter outfits, hunting eggs and shoving candy in their mouth, I would simply say "remind me Lord." And He did. <br /><br />I definitely still have hard moments. I've enjoyed being at home during my days. Some people don't understand this but it's truly healing for me to have time to myself, with the Lord and face my fears head on. I have a found my home to be a safe haven again like it once was. It is the place with all the joyful memories of Tucker but also the place where his presence is missing. This has been challenging but I have found the Lord restores. <br /><br />There are triggers that will suddenly make me burst into tears at times. Usually by myself. I have an entire family who all happen to be psychotherapists who can validate the normalcy in this. Triggers can be anything such as seeing his jug of apple juice in the fridge that I can't bring myself to throw away, or driving by walmart and not wanting to go in because he is not with me, to having to say the phrase "endotracheal intubation" three times to the billing department at the hospital. <br /><br />We took a trip to Colorado a few weeks ago. A wonderful family offered their house in Crested Butte to us for a week. I found myself thinking about God and Tucker quite a bit as I stared in awe at how artistic and creative our Lord is. In our human heads, it just doesn't get much better than this. That is why Heaven is so amazing to think about. We can't even fathom how beautiful and perfect it is.<br /><br /><br /><br /><p><a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-JoeTrP333r8/T4jWCVrKDlI/AAAAAAAAAFk/wBKvUTgsiaM/s1600/81760049.jpg"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 267px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 400px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5731065861495197266" border="0" alt="" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-JoeTrP333r8/T4jWCVrKDlI/AAAAAAAAAFk/wBKvUTgsiaM/s400/81760049.jpg" /></a><br /><a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-Dw4uCGFE2ao/T4jVweNojlI/AAAAAAAAAFY/5J3INWdMnXU/s1600/81760004.jpg"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 267px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 400px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5731065554549640786" border="0" alt="" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-Dw4uCGFE2ao/T4jVweNojlI/AAAAAAAAAFY/5J3INWdMnXU/s400/81760004.jpg" /></a> </p><br /><p>This has turned out to be longer than most posts. Nathan is out of town tonight so I felt like writing. One last thing, I can't think of the words that fully reflect our hearts and the gratitude that we feel for each and every single person who has been a part of this story. I have prayed for the Lord to help me in showing my appreciation to each of you. Thank you for loving us. Thank you for loving Tucker. Thanks for caring enough to read this incredibly scattered blog. :)</p>amy hillhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03259723955816751351noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7904653386764031117.post-8281460904108678842012-04-07T16:51:00.002-07:002012-04-07T16:58:37.092-07:00Glimpse of Tucker<div>Nothing profound to say except this makes me smile. He is quite the dancer and wanted to share a glimpse of Tucker.</div><div><br /></div><iframe allowfullscreen='allowfullscreen' webkitallowfullscreen='webkitallowfullscreen' mozallowfullscreen='mozallowfullscreen' width='320' height='266' src='https://www.blogger.com/video.g?token=AD6v5dyQpacR2jj68Wkf5y2Icatv2hJLC4n0VnblGkKzuOrC_DNFa4QPvm8TgYt3YwjA00Wk5WC2RHdFi_nmmUwnig' class='b-hbp-video b-uploaded' frameborder='0'></iframe><div><br /></div><div>"He will turn our mourning into dancing...." Psalm 30:11<br /><div><br /></div></div>amy hillhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03259723955816751351noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7904653386764031117.post-73420821526462672132012-03-27T13:17:00.004-07:002012-03-29T10:39:51.151-07:00One "worldly" month<a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-xfPS4FzginQ/T3IgfOXhxMI/AAAAAAAAAFM/OMEzxDhrnkE/s1600/teeth.jpg"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 267px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5724673797146133698" border="0" alt="" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-xfPS4FzginQ/T3IgfOXhxMI/AAAAAAAAAFM/OMEzxDhrnkE/s400/teeth.jpg" /></a><br /><br /><br /><br />It's been one month. One month since that precious little boy went to be with his Maker. He got to wake up in the arms of the one who so intricately designed those sweet cheeks, jagged teeth, brown eyes, and hair that did nothing but fall in his face.<br /><br />We are experiencing a pain right now that might be harder than the first initial pain of disbelief and trauma. This is the pain that is not going to go away. This is the pain that even in a joyful moment, you are quickly reminded that there is something missing and your heart just aches.<br /><br />The only thing that seems to bring a little comfort is to simply stop and say "Jesus be near me."<br /><br />It's hard to explain, but I don't think it was meant to be explained. For anyone who has truly experienced Jesus knows what I'm talking about. He is with you and wants more than anything to be with you. You just have to <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_0" class="blsp-spelling-corrected">acknowledge</span> Him.<br /><br />I found myself taking great comfort in this verse this morning. "I have told you these things, so that in me you may have peace. In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world." John 16:33<br /><br />That verse gives me chills. He knew. He knew the heart ache and troubles that we were going to experience in this world. And now my little boy sits with the One who conquered death. <br /><br />I have never felt so stuck in a "worldly" world. But I choose to be here and <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_1" class="blsp-spelling-corrected">fulfill</span> the Lord's purpose until He takes me home. We are in constant prayer about what that purpose is while we continue to miss and grieve our son who is no longer with us.<br /><br />Jesus also said to his disciples, "I am going away and I am coming back to you. If you loved me, you would be glad that I am going to the Father, for the Father is greater than I."amy hillhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03259723955816751351noreply@blogger.com9tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7904653386764031117.post-23213473460081894182012-03-13T22:26:00.004-07:002012-03-14T21:59:24.255-07:00Faith not SightI was discussing with a close friend of mine tonight about the deep yearning in my heart to see my baby boy again. I can smell him, I can hear his raspy voice, I can feel his oddly large hands, I can remember the joy in my heart when he gives me his big toothy grin with eyes squinting and all.<br /><br />I've never felt this kind of longing before, but I should have. I am slowly realizing that this is the exact longing that Jesus desires from me. I've always known the verse "We live by faith, not by sight" but it has suddenly hit home. A little too hard.<br /><br />Heaven has always been exciting to think about. I've always been excited when thinking about seeing my Savior face to face. But I don't recall ever having the heart wrenching ache where my whole body is physically and emotionally longing to see Him.<br /><br />This is where the faith comes in, and not so much the sight. I was able to see Tucker. I physically felt him. I heard his voice. I didn't have to experience him through faith because he was <em>there</em>. Jesus on the other hand requires a great deal of faith to experience him.<br /><br />Even though I have not physically seen Jesus with my eyes, He is there. I have not physically touched him, but He is there. As He is revealing Himself more and more to me, my heart is beginning to ache to see Him in a way I never knew was possible.<br /><br />So this is my desire. Just in case you're interested.<br /><br />I desire to <em>long</em> to see my Savior. Until that day comes, I will continue to try to live each day with a little more faith than the last.amy hillhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03259723955816751351noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7904653386764031117.post-85684780343359784492012-03-10T21:02:00.011-08:002012-03-10T22:37:23.221-08:00Heart of a Daddy<a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-nPmTBuz5KAY/T1xHYQh_i_I/AAAAAAAAAFA/krociTkpulc/s1600/298665_549772925061_157000619_31326304_5813951_n.jpg"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 290px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 400px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5718524108933663730" border="0" alt="" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-nPmTBuz5KAY/T1xHYQh_i_I/AAAAAAAAAFA/krociTkpulc/s400/298665_549772925061_157000619_31326304_5813951_n.jpg" /></a><br />God chose Nathan to be Tucker's daddy. This was not a mistake, a fluke, a coincidence. God knew that Tucker would only be with us for almost 15 months and that Nathan had every quality he wanted Tucker to have in an earthly daddy. I would love to share with you the heart of Tucker's daddy who I so proudly call my husband. This is the letter that Nathan wrote to his little boy and read at his funeral.<br /><br />Dear Tucker,<br /><br />Daddy loves you more than you could possibly know. Every day God gave us together was the most precious gift. I want you to know that you taught daddy how to love in a way that I never thought I could. You showed me unconditional love and what it means to have a joyful heart. I can never express how proud you made daddy!<br /><br />Every night that I got to hold you and sing "Jesus Loves Me" made me eternally grateful to Jesus for giving you to me and mommy. I miss you so so much and I will ache until the day I get to see you again. Everything you did made me love you more!<br /><br />I especially loved the mornings you would follow me around step for step as if you were my shadow always looking for something to get into. Fear could never overcome your curiosity or desire to get into something. Your tenacious and adventurous spirit was hard to contain.<br /><br />Daddy always prayed over you that one day you would be a warrior for Jesus and the man I've hoped to be. And though I'm at a loss for understanding and my heart is broken, God answered my prayer. Your life has revealed the power of the body of Christ and shown people Jesus.<br /><br />Daddy is having a hard time with the idea that I won't be able to play ball, or wrestle, or play blocks, or do free throws anymore. I could hardly wait to start teaching you how to shoot a basketball or hit a baseball. But these were always daddy's plans. Jesus had a different plan for your life. You are so precious to Him that He called you home so you could be together and be spared from the sin and brokenness of this world. And for now, I take comfort in this.<br /><br />However, there will always be a part of mommy and daddy's heart missing until the day we get to see you again in Heaven. From now until that day, I will always be thinking about you! You are and always will be my Bubbs. And daddy is so proud of you!<br /><br />I love you,<br /><br />Daddy<br /><br /><br /><br /><div></div><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><div></div><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><div></div><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><div></div><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><div></div><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><div></div>amy hillhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03259723955816751351noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7904653386764031117.post-68799748480178614632012-03-07T16:10:00.006-08:002012-03-08T08:55:34.153-08:00Mighty Warrior<a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-zl4PU68K4L8/T1jgr2PlxsI/AAAAAAAAAEc/5hyxkfIWTRE/s1600/TUCKER.jpg"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 400px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5717566770846746306" border="0" alt="" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-zl4PU68K4L8/T1jgr2PlxsI/AAAAAAAAAEc/5hyxkfIWTRE/s400/TUCKER.jpg" /></a><br /><br /><br /><div align="center">"The Lord is with you, Mighty Warrior." Judges 6:12<br /></div>At this point I am sure everyone who reads this is aware that we lost our precious son Tucker a week ago on February 28<span id="SPELLING_ERROR_0" class="blsp-spelling-error">th</span>. Nothing can prepare you for that phone call, that tragic moment when you keep asking yourself "is this real?" That moment when the only thing you can do is cry out to the Lord in desperation to save your baby boy.<br /><br /><br />Tucker was a special one. Tucker will never have to experience the <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_1" class="blsp-spelling-corrected">brokenness</span> and <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_2" class="blsp-spelling-corrected">sinfulness</span> that comes with living in this world. Tucker is with Jesus. I ache for the day I will see him in my Savior's arms.<br /><br /><br />I never did well with writing on here and I probably still won't, but I know that we have an enormous amount of people praying for us and a lot of unanswered questions.<br /><br /><br />Last Tuesday I <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_3" class="blsp-spelling-error">layed</span> Tucker down for a nap around 5:00 pm. My last moments with him were him falling asleep in my arms and then laying him down in his crib. He woke up several times to look up at me as I was walking out but I rubbed his back until he finally fell asleep.<br /><br /><br />Nathan returned home from work around 6:30 and we talked about how Tucker seems to be catching a cold lately so we decided to just let him sleep for a little bit. I kissed Nathan goodbye as I headed out to coach a thirty minute private <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_4" class="blsp-spelling-error">cheerleading</span> lesson.<br /><br /><br />In the middle of my lesson, my phone rang. My neighbor was frantically telling me to come home and the only thing I said was "who is it?" Tucker. It was Tucker. That drive home was me screaming to the Lord "please don't take him" and an utter disbelief that this was happening.<br /><br /><br />Nathan decided he didn't want to wait for Tucker to wake, he was ready to see and play with his boy, only to find that when he touched him there was no response. I weep and cringe when I think what his daddy had to go through with trying to revive him on our living room carpet, the same carpet Tucker drags all his toys on to play. Our neighbor/friend Amber came over and did CPR on little Tuck before the medics showed up.<br /><br /><br />As I pulled up, Tucker was already inside the ambulance and they were still working on him. Neighbors I didn't even know were on their knees in our yard praying fervently. Once at the hospital, I somehow found my way back to the room where little Tuck was laying on the table in his diaper I remembered just changing while a team was around him attempting to bring him back to us. Nathan and I just held up our hands to God and cried out to him to please save our son.<br /><br /><br />I knew that when the Doctor started saying "anyone have any ideas" that it was over. I knew that are baby boy was with Jesus. We laid our hands on him, we prayed over him, we told him to be with Jesus, we kissed those sweet cheeks, we stroked that long hair, and then finally we sang "Jesus Loves Me" to him for the last time.<br /><br /><br />I sat in my kitchen a few days before Tucker passed and poured out my heart to the Lord. I remember I kept saying the phrase "Lord, just please let me him know you." I asked the Lord to start working in Tucker's little heart so the he may know the Lord and follow him. That's all I could ask for and the rest was up to the Lord on what he wanted to do with his life.<br /><br /><br />Tucker knows Jesus now. More than I do. The coroner explained to us that the cause of death was something so subtle that after <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_5" class="blsp-spelling-corrected">eliminating</span> every possible scenario nothing was making sense except to say it had to of been <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_6" class="blsp-spelling-corrected">arrhythmia</span>. The Lord decided to use tucker's little heart to take him to be with Him so that Tucker may know him.<br /><br /><br />We are confused, we are hurting, the pain feels unbearable at times, but then the Lord will show up in a very subtle way to remind us that He is here. Just like Tucker went to be with him in a subtle way.<br /><br /><br />The kingdom has never felt so close. It is our absolute desire for Tucker's life to be used to bring glory to our Lord's name. Nathan's prayer over Tucker was to be a warrior for Christ. We've never been so proud of him.<br /><br /><br />Words will never be able to express our experience with body of Christ that the Lord is using to envelope us in such a time as this. The <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_7" class="blsp-spelling-corrected">outpouring</span> of prayers and <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_8" class="blsp-spelling-corrected">encouragement</span> have played such a role in helping us cope through the pain and remember that Jesus has conquered death. This is not it.<br /><br /><br />Thank you. Thank you. Thank you.<br /><br /><br />It is not sufficient....but thank you.<br /><br /><br />In Christ and in Love,<br /><br /><br />Amy Hill<br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><p></p><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><p><br /></p>amy hillhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03259723955816751351noreply@blogger.com18tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7904653386764031117.post-69701368886447710302011-02-04T08:46:00.000-08:002011-02-04T10:55:56.870-08:00*December* (Yes I know it's February)<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_NufuAn5QvpY/TUwy0vW-31I/AAAAAAAAADc/HDncZ_lmBiU/s1600/100_3556.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 300px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_NufuAn5QvpY/TUwy0vW-31I/AAAAAAAAADc/HDncZ_lmBiU/s400/100_3556.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5569882720797908818" /></a><br /><div>Here are the first few weeks of our little man's life. These were also the hardest weeks of our lives. Not going to sugar coat it. He did not sleep at night. Not only did he not sleep but he wanted to scream a lot. The practical thing to do would be to sleep during the day while he was sleeping. But I couldn't help but stare at his precious little face and take a million too many pictures of him while he was not crying. So this caused me to become a walking zombie. And at night I was just a plain crazy person. <div><br /></div><div>Thankfully, he figured it out. I woke up panicked one morning at 4 am realizing that he has been asleep for 6 whole hours and has not woken up to eat. I did what everyone tells you that you are going to do. I got down by his swing and just stared at him for 5 minutes straight watching his chest rise up and down. He was breathing and he has been breathing ever since. </div><div><br /></div><div><br /><div><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_NufuAn5QvpY/TUwxEIU3x0I/AAAAAAAAADM/2IwII-gLf4k/s1600/35598_586473935057_68601506_33555308_2551434_n.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 361px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_NufuAn5QvpY/TUwxEIU3x0I/AAAAAAAAADM/2IwII-gLf4k/s400/35598_586473935057_68601506_33555308_2551434_n.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5569880786174723906" /></a><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_NufuAn5QvpY/TUwxEP34eaI/AAAAAAAAADE/WKjshQwIQl4/s1600/36271_586474109707_68601506_33555317_4562720_n.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 383px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_NufuAn5QvpY/TUwxEP34eaI/AAAAAAAAADE/WKjshQwIQl4/s400/36271_586474109707_68601506_33555317_4562720_n.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5569880788200618402" /></a><br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_NufuAn5QvpY/TUwxDxwOtbI/AAAAAAAAAC8/NL0aCdWfHtQ/s1600/163084_528756666811_157000619_31151757_7317734_n.jpg"></a></div><div><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_NufuAn5QvpY/TUwxDxwOtbI/AAAAAAAAAC8/NL0aCdWfHtQ/s1600/163084_528756666811_157000619_31151757_7317734_n.jpg"><img style="text-align: left;display: block; margin-top: 0px; margin-right: auto; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; cursor: pointer; width: 290px; height: 400px; " src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_NufuAn5QvpY/TUwxDxwOtbI/AAAAAAAAAC8/NL0aCdWfHtQ/s400/163084_528756666811_157000619_31151757_7317734_n.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5569880780115457458" /></a><div style="text-align: center;">Tucker's first smile :)</div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_NufuAn5QvpY/TUwxD0r1s9I/AAAAAAAAAC0/2pewbf_ahCc/s1600/100_3539.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 300px; height: 400px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_NufuAn5QvpY/TUwxD0r1s9I/AAAAAAAAAC0/2pewbf_ahCc/s400/100_3539.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5569880780902347730" /></a><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_NufuAn5QvpY/TUwwfDNw1XI/AAAAAAAAACs/C8HvJ7ULmMU/s1600/162870_528941715971_157000619_31154898_5527329_n.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 290px; height: 400px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_NufuAn5QvpY/TUwwfDNw1XI/AAAAAAAAACs/C8HvJ7ULmMU/s400/162870_528941715971_157000619_31154898_5527329_n.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5569880149147571570" /></a><div style="text-align: center;">His converse shoes that Minnie made for him</div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_NufuAn5QvpY/TUwweuyY0QI/AAAAAAAAACk/_t_X1gZns-w/s1600/163896_529399159251_157000619_31161653_3158104_n.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 290px; height: 400px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_NufuAn5QvpY/TUwweuyY0QI/AAAAAAAAACk/_t_X1gZns-w/s400/163896_529399159251_157000619_31161653_3158104_n.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5569880143664042242" /></a><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_NufuAn5QvpY/TUwweboWNhI/AAAAAAAAACc/-C66byM6ecM/s1600/165206_529108102531_157000619_31157929_4380342_n.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 298px; height: 400px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_NufuAn5QvpY/TUwweboWNhI/AAAAAAAAACc/-C66byM6ecM/s400/165206_529108102531_157000619_31157929_4380342_n.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5569880138521654802" /></a><div style="text-align: center;">Tucker's BFF Asa</div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_NufuAn5QvpY/TUwwd6tX1iI/AAAAAAAAACU/dIC__T_eIFo/s1600/165268_588175649807_68601506_33596111_7653531_n.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 267px; height: 400px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_NufuAn5QvpY/TUwwd6tX1iI/AAAAAAAAACU/dIC__T_eIFo/s400/165268_588175649807_68601506_33596111_7653531_n.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5569880129684362786" /></a><div style="text-align: center;">Then there were three</div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_NufuAn5QvpY/TUwwdvAdJCI/AAAAAAAAACM/In9JSkT4e1o/s1600/166493_588175879347_68601506_33596126_7101867_n.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 267px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_NufuAn5QvpY/TUwwdvAdJCI/AAAAAAAAACM/In9JSkT4e1o/s400/166493_588175879347_68601506_33596126_7101867_n.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5569880126543176738" /></a><div style="text-align: center;">Cousins first Christmas</div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_NufuAn5QvpY/TUwvvYYA3AI/AAAAAAAAACE/uMVK5Egj8_c/s1600/165249_529130692261_157000619_31158396_5021805_n.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 298px; height: 400px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_NufuAn5QvpY/TUwvvYYA3AI/AAAAAAAAACE/uMVK5Egj8_c/s400/165249_529130692261_157000619_31158396_5021805_n.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5569879330193988610" /></a><div style="text-align: center;">No matter how sleep deprived you are, nothing can warm your heart more than that precious face. :)</div></div></div></div>amy hillhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03259723955816751351noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7904653386764031117.post-36582139308207967002011-01-02T18:07:00.001-08:002012-03-05T22:05:57.084-08:00I'm Back...I am absolutely THRILLED to say that our little <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_0" class="blsp-spelling-error">bubby</span> Tucker Hill is now blessing us with his presence in our lives. :) He was born on December 8<span id="SPELLING_ERROR_1" class="blsp-spelling-error">th</span> which makes him not quite a month old yet. He is absolutely precious and we can't get enough of him. You would think I would post a picture of him right here and I was actually going to until I realized I am on my work laptop where there are no pictures of him to post. I am committing to becoming better at blogging (esp. since my sister pretty much said my blog was an epic fail) so there will be pictures soon.<br /><br />Labor. Really tough. I blame it on my sister. I witnessed her go through a <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_2" class="blsp-spelling-corrected">pain free</span>, laughing out loud, watching a basketball game labor with BOTH sons. Obviously she had an epidural and obviously I was totally sold on having THAT. In fact, throughout my pregnancy that was the one thing I did in fact know for sure about. Anytime a doctor asked about my birth plan....the only thing I would say was "epidural."<br /><br />Nathan and I get to the hospital about 2:30 in the morning. This is after I sat in bed for a little while trying to convince myself that maybe just maybe these were contractions that I was feeling. By the time I got there I was at a 5. I politely asked for my epidural and they politely said that a "few" things needed to happen first such as paper work, lab results, delivery room availability, anesthesiologist to wake up....before I could get it. Okay...thinking I guess I can handle this pain a little while longer.<br /><br />Then things got painful. And I mean everything you just learned in birthing class over the past two months and breathing exercises that we were supposed to be practicing just in case you decided not to go the epidural route....<span id="SPELLING_ERROR_3" class="blsp-spelling-error">allll</span> goes out the window. I found that my only coping mechanism was to grab the hospital bed rails with both hands and quit breathing in hopes that maybe I would pass out and not have to deal with the pain anymore. Poor Nathan was amazing, but at that point I would just start shaking my head <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_4" class="blsp-spelling-corrected">every time</span> he went into the "<span id="SPELLING_ERROR_5" class="blsp-spelling-error">hee</span>-<span id="SPELLING_ERROR_6" class="blsp-spelling-error">hee</span>-<span id="SPELLING_ERROR_7" class="blsp-spelling-error">hoos</span>."<br /><br />So the nurse decides to check me again. I saw the look of shock and somewhat panic on her face as she said "<span id="SPELLING_ERROR_8" class="blsp-spelling-error">umm</span>...you're at a 10." For some reason I progressed crazy fast and the anesthesiologist was still no where to be found.<br /><br />I DID finally get my epidural. I barely made it and by the grace of God I was able to relax and enjoy giving birth to my son. It's almost <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_9" class="blsp-spelling-corrected">humorous</span> now looking back at how I just thought you would go in and they would give you an epidural immediately upon request. You would laugh and take pictures....maybe even apply some makeup and fix your hair so you can be one of those girls who everyone says "wow...you look great giving birth!"<br /><br />And to all my friends who are planning on the natural birth, you will be great! I am not great at pain. <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_10" class="blsp-spelling-error">Everyone</span> knows this about me. I had no intention of feeling a muscle cramp throughout labor and delivery. When God said that child birth was going to be painful for women, He was not messing around. But he also says that He will not give us anything that we cannot handle. And that's just great.<br /><br />So that is the process of Tucker making his grand entrance. Nothing can prepare you for that moment when you first see him, touch him, hear him...something literally transforms inside of you and nothing else matters but this little being that you have become so close to over the past 10 months.<br /><br />I am excited to start blogging again and sharing our stories as we are trying to figure out mommy and daddy hood. And next time....there will be pictures. :)amy hillhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03259723955816751351noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7904653386764031117.post-29775545990059129732010-09-03T16:48:00.001-07:002012-03-05T22:12:52.088-08:00Overwhelmed.I officially feel like I am the worst mom and I am not even a mom yet. I think about everything that I need to do everyday. I make lists. I look at endless amounts of "baby things" online everyday. And I still have not done a thing. I went to some consignment sale in rogers the other night thinking that this is finally it. I am finally going to start purchasing baby items and this whole thing is going to seem that much more real to me. It was a nightmare. Obviously I could not take on this challenge by myself so I asked my so much more experienced at everything in life sister to go with me. <br /><div>The second I walked in, I didn't know what to do. I wasn't sure if we were supposed to start running like it was a black <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_0" class="blsp-spelling-error">friday</span> sale or if we just casually browsed through things. I realized it was in between crazy and casual. By the time I had this figured out, my sister already had about three items in her hands and then before I knew it she was out of my sight. She left me on the aisle with those things you put babies in that vibrate and shake. My only knowledge of this device was from a Sex and the City episode where it literally saved Miranda's life because her baby would not stop crying. I decided what if my baby does that and this is my life saving device, so I stared at it for about five minutes. I pressed buttons, I checked for tears, I looked around panicked realizing that five more minutes just went by. </div><br /><div>I finally realized I needed advice, so I set out to find my sister. Along the way I realized that these people are professionals. By this point everybody had laundry baskets (no one told me you were supposed to bring things like this) full of items. Along the way I come across strollers, high chairs, clothes and more clothes. Finally, I found her. She was one of those people. At this point she had about three more items (six total) and was working her way through a pile of something. I told her about the thing you put babies in that vibrates. Before I got done explaining all that it does and how this is what Meredith used in Sex and the City, she told me to hurry and go get it. </div><br /><div>As I made my way back over there, I started getting excited about my first baby purchase. I stared at it for five more minutes and then went and got the woman in green so that she could mark it as sold for me. She was about to put the tag on it when I began asking 20 questions. She was very helpful and patient with me. She guessed that this was my first baby and I told her this was also my first purchase for the baby. I am still not sure exactly what she said, but I decided after talking to her I should not purchase it. Keep in mind, I can be talked out of anything. </div><br /><div>I went to try to find my sister again feeling defeated. She asked me where it was and I told her sadly that I was talked out of it. My sister knows me too well and was able to talk me back into it in two seconds. Keep in mind I can usually be talked into things too. She knows this. So I go back. My mom calls right when I am picking up the vibrating thing that you put babies in to let me know there is a tornado on the ground. (She does this a lot). I told her about my purchase, and for some reason I felt talked out of it again. I hung up once again feeling defeated. </div><br /><div>I went out to find my sister again, growing fully aware of how much stuff everyone seems to have in their laundry baskets at this point. She asked me if I got it and I had to tell her no. This time it was mom that made me feel talked out of it. This is when she decided it is time to go with me to look at this thing. She tells me it is a good deal and I will absolutely love it. After staring at it for a little bit longer, she then made a comment about how maybe I could just have her old one. That did it for me. There was no way I was going to purchase this thing you put babies in that vibrates. </div><br /><div>By this point it was about time to go. I decided to just glance at a few things to see if any of the professional baby shoppers left me anything. I found a pair of black maternity leggings from target that were $3.00. I almost bought them and then decided that it would be even more depressing to walk away with leggings for me when I came to shop for my little one. </div><br /><div>So I sat in a chair while my sister purchased all of her items and called Nathan to let him know that I was not getting anything for baby Tucker. </div><br /><div>Which brings me to my next big news.....:)</div><br /><div>We have decided on a name. Tucker Alan Hill. :) That is the first time I typed it. </div><br /><div>Several of you probably have quit reading at this point so I will be sure to announce it in my next blog so you don't miss out.</div><br /><div>Thanks for caring :)</div>amy hillhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03259723955816751351noreply@blogger.com2